Choice?


“Your wisdom decides how beautiful your life will be”

We can never predict what life holds for us. We only can make wise choices with our wisdom to do our best and mold our life as per our desire.


CHOICE? Is it really what makes or ruins our life? Is it really the root cause of whatever happens in our life? or is it just one of the factors that affects our life?
What I believe is that choices hold a very important role in everyone’s life. Everything that happens to us and to our life is because of a choice. For Example, You've got an exam tomorrow morning about which you were informed today, so instead of studying for it you choose to go out for a movie. Next day you flunk in your exam. This is a very simple example of choice where you choose to go out rather than studying which resulted in your failure…

Always remember that life is a race, where everyone is trying to run faster than the other, trying to reach their goals faster than the other, trying to reach their goals faster than others and in this process striving hard to make a mark of their existence on the world, so unless you run, you don’t make an effort, you shall lag behind in all spheres of life.



Now a question arises.... why is everyone running? Why does everyone want to remain ahead of others? Why does everyone want to achieve their goals first and make a mark of their achievements?



The answer is pretty simple ... It is because we all have made a choice to run in this race of life to achieve and fulfill what is expected out of us and even beyond that. It is because we have chosen to mould our life into a beautiful dream... a dream in which we have lived up to the expectations of not only our well-wishers but also to our own expectations.
Supposing if there were no choices in our life; how monotonous would everything become. The race of life would have become so predictable, so boring, for ever... till it ends.

Choices give us a chance to spice up our life. It gives us a chance to move away from the old and frequently trodden path and create our own path to success. A path which if leads to success may become another “frequently trodden” path else would remain in the dark unless an experimenter throws light upon it and decides to move on...


So it can be said that the root cause of every happening in our life is the result of the choice that lead us to the path we are moving on today and obviously it’s just one of the factors as choice independently wouldn’t have affected our lives so much because it is the hard work, patience and will power that has lead us to where we stand today!

A choice once taken becomes a milestone in the life of a person and acts as a guide for others. A choice only becomes successful if the person knows what his goals are and what his ultimate destination is.



Successful people don’t do different things, they do common things differently and that’s what makes them stand out of the crowd. It is clear to them where they are heading, what will be the future outcome of every step that they take and hence most of their choices turn in their favor and shine bright to enlighten the story of their success.



On a final note I’d say that a choice is what shapes you, your mentality and most importantly..... Your LIFE!!


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